recovery matters

Help for Teens

HELPING A TEEN WITH INTERNET PROBLEMS
  • Encourage healthy interests, sports and social activities. Get your child involved in other hobbies or activities away from the computer screen. Encourage team sports and activities, Church youth groups, Girl Guides or Boy Scouts or extra-moral activities at school.
  • Set clear limits and monitor computer and cell-phone use.
  • Make sure the computer is in a communal area in the home and that you are aware of their on-line activities. If a child switches screens the minute you approach…this is a warning sign.
  • Make sure that homework and chores are done before computer activities start.
  • Parents need to set an example by modeling sensible computer and cell-phone habits. If parents can’t stay away…your children will probably follow your example
  • Stay connected to your child. Compulsive computer use can be the sign of deeper problems. Is your child having problems fitting in? Has there been a recent major change, like a move or divorce, which is causing stress?
  • Don’t be afraid to seek professional counseling if you are concerned.
  • If you suspect your child is being approached by a sexual predator…contact your police or Childline© immediately.